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自序 Preface········································································································ 3
第 1 章 大情圣背后之谜 The Mystery behind Casanova ········································· 4
1.1 得到女人的步骤 ··························································································································4
1.2 精通求爱的科学 ··························································································································5
1.3 破解把到正妹的密码 ··················································································································5
1.4 打造谜男······································································································································6
第 2 章 人生的终极目标 The Ultimate Purpose of Life············································ 8
2.1 人生的终极目标 ··························································································································8
2.2 人生的第二目标 ··························································································································8
2.3 你这一生的目标 ··························································································································8
2.4 为了生存或繁殖而训练？···········································································································9
2.5 动态社交平衡····························································································································10
2.6 生物机器····································································································································10
2.7 S与R价值···································································································································11
2.8 接近焦虑····································································································································11
2.9 马斯洛的需求层次理论·············································································································12
2.10 重要的焦点领域 ························································································································13
2.11 重点复习····································································································································15
第 3 章 改写她的恋爱电路 Rewiring Her Attraction Circuitry·······························16
3.1 情感的动物································································································································16
3.2 孔雀理论····································································································································17
3.3 社会认知····································································································································17
3.4 一致性测试································································································································19
3.5 投资············································································································································19
3.6 别扭与冲突································································································································20
3.7 好玩与刺激································································································································20
3.8 女人了解社交力学 ····················································································································21
3.9 评价女人的外表 ························································································································21
3.10 猫绳理论····································································································································21
3.11 男朋友········································································································································22
3.12 重点复习····································································································································23
第 4 章 游戏的规则与架构 Rules and Structure of the Game··································24
4.1 游戏要在现场玩 ························································································································24
4.2 谜男指派的菜鸟任务 ················································································································24
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4.3 标准化与内化····························································································································24
4.4 过程重于结果····························································································································25
4.5 性关系的结构····························································································································25
4.6 求爱············································································································································26
4.7 吸引············································································································································26
4.8 M3 模型 ·····································································································································28
4.9 M3 顺序的四个错误··················································································································29
4.10 游戏地点····································································································································35
4.11 M3 模型的九个阶段··················································································································36
4.12 重点复习····································································································································38
第 5 章 A1：打开组合 Open ··················································································39
5.1 邂逅地点····································································································································39
5.2 逼近············································································································································40
5.3 三秒法则····································································································································40
5.4 三分钟例外································································································································41
5.5 开场白········································································································································41
5.6 人在现场····································································································································41
5.7 防护罩········································································································································42
5.8 罐装材料····································································································································43
5.9 适当呈现材料····························································································································44
5.10 假性时间限制····························································································································44
5.11 社交认证····································································································································47
5.12 重点复习····································································································································48
第 6 章 A2：女对男的兴趣 Female-to-Male Interest ··············································49
6.1 兴趣指标····································································································································49
6.2 无兴趣指标································································································································51
6.3 否定理论····································································································································51
6.4 否定的种类································································································································54
6.5 展示高价值································································································································55
6.6 团体理论····································································································································56
6.7 多重对话脉络····························································································································57
6.8 切断对话脉络····························································································································57
6.9 扮演僚机····································································································································58
6.10 讲故事········································································································································60
6.11 锁定道具····································································································································60
6.12 锁定············································································································································61
6.13 角色扮演····································································································································61
6.14 假性失格····································································································································62
6.15 视觉记忆DHV ···························································································································62
6.16 团体力学：领导男人，女人就会跟随 ·····················································································63
6.17 抵押············································································································································65
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6.18 枢纽············································································································································65
6.19 顺向与逆向融合 ························································································································65
6.20 如何练习游戏手法 ····················································································································66
6.21 重点复习····································································································································67
第 7 章 A3：男对女的兴趣 Male-to-Female Interest ··············································68
7.1 框架控制····································································································································68
7.2 圈套理论····································································································································69
7.3 角色逆转····································································································································71
7.4 要有标准····································································································································72
7.5 筛选············································································································································73
7.6 间歇性········································································································································73
7.7 进挪升高····································································································································74
7.8 服从············································································································································77
7.9 从社交地位解释她对搭讪的认知·····························································································85
7.10 重点复习····································································································································87
第 8 章 交谈 Conversation ·················································································88
8.1 冷冻············································································································································88
8.2 建立舒适感的地点 ····················································································································89
8.3 三种建立舒适感的场地·············································································································89
8.4 游戏的五种场地 ························································································································89
8.5 C1 地点：邂逅场地内部的任何建立舒适感之场所 ································································90
8.6 移动到C1 ···································································································································90
8.7 对话的和谐关系 ························································································································90
8.8 共通点········································································································································92
8.9 同谋意识····································································································································93
8.10 敏感面········································································································································94
8.11 惩罚／奖赏································································································································94
8.12 嫉妒情节····································································································································95
8.13 制造嫉妒感的示范 ····················································································································95
8.14 背景植入····································································································································96
8.15 重点复习····································································································································99
第 9 章 中场游戏与结尾游戏 Mid-Game and End-Game ······································· 100
9.1 亲吻··········································································································································101
9.2 C2 地点：任何不同于邂逅地点与性爱地点的建立舒适感地点···········································101
9.3 换场··········································································································································102
9.4 电话游戏（摘自谜男沙发吧，Lovedrop关于电话游戏的文章）·········································104
9.5 关于放鸽子······························································································································105
9.6 约会（摘自谜男沙发吧，Lovedrop关于约会的文章） ························································105
9.7 C3 地点：性爱地点内部的任何建立舒适感地点··································································107
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9.8 性爱地点··································································································································107
9.9 从C3 到S1 ································································································································107
9.10 S2：最后一刻的抵抗 ··············································································································108
9.11 摧毁最后一刻的抵抗 ··············································································································108
9.12 玩正确的游戏··························································································································109
9.13 冷冻··········································································································································109
9.14 S3：性爱··································································································································109
9.15 重点复习·································································································································· 111
结语 | 前进与征服 Conclusion | Go forth and Conquer ·······································112
谜男的信 A Bonus Letter from Mystery······························································113
把妹术语一览表 Glossary ····················································································114